If you are a creative person, someone who likes to write, or make
videos, or draw, or make music, why not make use of these interests to
enhance your sex life? Instead of looking for sex tips from others who
may not share your creativity or imagination, why not rely on your own
resources to come up with ideas that will surprise and delight your
appreciative partner. Certainly, he or she will adore and treasure
something personalized and unique, something that comes straight from
your heart - and his or her passion for you will no doubt follow this
adoration.
The Power of Words
The written word can be used by anyone to provide detailed sex tips,
with specific instructions telling you what to do and how to do it.
Beyond this obvious example of the power of words, however, in the hands
of a true wordsmith, the written word also has the capacity to charm,
excite and stimulate in new and thrilling ways. If you have a gift for
writing, you could have the perfect forum to express yourself to your
partner in a way that will melt their heart - or just turn them on, if
that is what you prefer. By e-mail or by hand, you could write them a
romantic poem, or a long letter expressing your deepest feelings. Or,
you could lovingly and passionately talk to your partner about all of
the erotic and arousing things you would like to do for them and with
them. These words read aloud, by the two of you together, could add
quite a lot of spice and intensity to your intimate moments.
Artistic Imagery
If you have artistic ability, you don't have to write about what you
would like to express to your lover, you can show them with drawings or
watercolors instead. They could be pictures of sweet scenes designed to
melt their heart, or erotic and sensual images that will drive them
crazy with desire. You can really let your creativity and artistic
imagination run wild, in ways that will delight your lover and arouse
uncontrollable passions. If you want to go for something more elaborate
or permanent, you could paint or sculpt something for your bedside table
or bedroom wall, something right in your sightlines that could provide
more regular inspiration.
Video
Many possibilities present themselves here. You could simply record
yourself telling how you feel, and talking about what your partner does
to your heart and body. You could do a striptease, or something even
more intimate and exciting. You could, of course, make erotic videos
together, something that many couples are doing now. Or, maybe you could
sing or recite a poem, if you are a little too shy to express yourself
that way in person.
Music
Of course, if you play a musical instrument or sing, you could write
your own song that lets your partner know just how much they mean to
you, or how much you desire them. It is hard to imagine anything that
would touch your lover or loved one more, and even though singing or
playing would be incredibly romantic even if it were someone else's
music and words, that would not compare to the feelings you will inspire
if you serenade your loved one with your own special creation,
something you carefully crafted just for them.
Sexual Creativity
Bringing creativity to your sex life does not have to involve only
the indirect methods described above. You can also bring your
imagination to play directly in your lovemaking style and choices. Try
to come up with new places to instigate romantic moments, or come up
with your own techniques to break old routines and surprise and inspire
your partner. You don't have to look for how-to manuals to find good sex
tips - if you are a creative person, let your own inspiration combine
with your natural passions, and you will know instinctively what to do
to bring your lover to the edge of ecstasy.
These are just some of the ways that you can enliven your lovemaking
and romantic life using your creative abilities and instincts. You won't
have any trouble finding sources to give you sex tips that deal with
the mechanics of sexual arousal and pleasure. But taking the time to
make something or write something or play something for your partner
shows them how much you care, and how deeply you desire them. There is
no technique anywhere that someone can teach you or describe to you that
will affect your lover so profoundly and deeply, in body and soul.
